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7 Modest Ways Of Showing Gratitude

November 13, 2018

What are you grateful for this year? Are you grateful for your family? Are you grateful for your favorite Television show on Netflix that helps you relax after work? Whatever it may be, I truly believe in the power of giving thanks, especially when you don’t expect anything in return. Giving thanks does not only remind you of what you have but it can also give you a happy boost to move you toward your desired goal comfortably and with peace.

So how should you show your gratitude? In this post, I will provide you with specific ways and activities you can do that I know will surely bring gratitude and thankfulness to your heart.

Let’s get started, shall we?

So what are some things you can do to express gratitude? Here are some ways:

1. Communicate with a friend(s)

Have you had a friend that helped you out when you were down in the dumps? We all have that one friend that sits down and listen to our problems or that best friend that stands up for you when someone mistreated you.

If you ever had a friend that brought a complete smile to your face or made you laugh, tell them how much you appreciate them. If you’re not the talking type, text them or email letting them know how much you appreciate them in your life. That will surely bring a smile on their face.

2. Listen to positive music

Music has the tendency to make us feel a certain way. Whether it is sadness or happiness, music is a gift that we should use all the time. Music is one of the five ways that helps me remain positive when things do not go my way.

To show gratitude, how about playing your favorite song? You’re showing gratitude because you appreciate the song and how it makes you feel, which should be happy. So listen to your favorite jam and dance away.

3. Help people in the simplest way

This is one of the simplest ways to show gratitude because it also helps the other person feel good too.

If you ever find yourself at the store and you’re opening the door to leave or come in, and let’s say there is someone following behind you, open the door for them.

Put a smile on someone’s face by just being helpful. Even complimenting a person about their style, their hair, or whatever it may be, that helps them feel good about themselves. We all need that sometimes.

“Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.” – Brian Tracy

4. Cooking for a friend or family member

Nothing is better than having good food to eat surrounded by close friends and family. Whether you love baking or cooking a dish, your friend or family member will truly appreciate you.

In addition, you’ll be doing it for you too because cooking makes you happy.

5. Play games with family and friends

Games are always fun unless you’re the competitive type (I am at times). Spending times with loved one’s by playing certain games show gratitude because you appreciate the time you have with your loved.

I love playing games with friend and family because it then brings laughter, smiles, and enjoyment as we try to beat each and win. Overall, we just end up talking and laughing.

6. Volunteer

Volunteering is by far my favorite way to show gratitude and serve others. Servitude is by far one of the humblest ways to bring your ego down a bit.

With volunteering, you may get to see things you’ve never seen before, which may in turn, express gratitude for what you have. On the other hand, volunteering can also help bring a smile on someone’s face.

7. Send cards to a loved one just for the sake of it

Sometimes, a personalized letter is more expressive than a text or an email. You can customize your card however you want it to be, and write as long as you want to be.

I know that in this day and age, sending a card to someone seems “old-fashioned” but it always does the trick. So the next time you want to send a card to send someone you care about, just send it, and I guarantee they’ll appreciate it.

In Conclusion

I have given you several ways to should practice gratitude in addition to what you’re already doing. These practices could be added to your lifestyle (ex: volunteering).

Gratitude should not just be for the holidays since it’s November. However, this action should be practiced every day. This list isn’t a must or anything. If you have certain things that you do on your terms that you’re grateful for, then, by all means, continue to do it. These simple ideas are just to help you express gratitude in ways you’ve never expressed it before. So remember to always be grateful for the little things life. They are what keeps you smiling in this journey called life.

What is the one thing you’re grateful for this year? Did you like this post? Comment below!

If you have any questions, just email me at hello@itssimplyalia.com. Let’s chat!

Until Next Time,

Simply Alia

4 Comments

  • Reply
    Andrew A.
    January 8, 2019 at 11:07 am

    Hello Alia, there is an aura of positivity around this blog and especially this post.
    What I like the most about you is that you are honest. You do not come out with any gimmicks, on the contrary you love and enjoy the simple things.
    I can relate to you in many ways, I love helping others and I do believe that being kind to someone is always the best “medicine”.
    Talking about showing gratitude… Once someone told me: “Thanks for your help, you do not know what you have done for me”.
    I replied: “No, YOU DO NOT know what you have done for me: it is such a great feeling helping others”
    I am glad when I can help and when someone helps me, I need to repay them.
    I would feel deeply uncomfortable if I could not reciprocate.
    Gratitude is a way of life to me.
    Thank you very much for writing such a beautiful post, it is a joy to run into like-minded people.
    I will keep coming back to read and give my take on other topics.

    • Reply
      Simply Alia
      January 9, 2019 at 4:55 am

      First of all, thank you! You are too kind. People like you always make my world go around, so happy, humble, and honest! Second, I truly believe that helping people is great because you don’t know what that person may be going through. Even a smile or a compliment can brighten someone’s day ( like mine)! I believe that gratitude is a lifestyle, it’s embedded in all of us. We just need to show it more. Again thank you for the comment.

  • Reply
    Teresa Lynn Jeffris
    January 8, 2019 at 5:12 pm

    I love this! I’m grateful for so many things. Too many to count.

    • Reply
      Simply Alia
      January 9, 2019 at 4:43 am

      I’m so glad! We need to be like this on a daily basis.

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